{"id":394,"date":"2021-02-03T11:18:03","date_gmt":"2021-02-03T11:18:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/61works.com\/onda\/?page_id=394"},"modified":"2021-02-03T13:18:36","modified_gmt":"2021-02-03T13:18:36","slug":"cicek-ulkesi","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/cicek-ulkesi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7i\u00e7ek \u00dclkesi"},"content":{"rendered":"
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(Bu makale HaberT\u00fcrk HT Hayat’ta yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.)<\/h3>\n

Yava\u015f ad\u0131mlarla yakla\u015ft\u0131m kap\u0131ya do\u011fru\u2026<\/p>\n

20 y\u0131ld\u0131r i\u015f hayat\u0131nday\u0131m, i\u015fim nedeniyle \u00e7ok ki\u015fi ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, y\u00fczlerce ki\u015fiye konferanslar verdim, pek \u00e7ok kurumsal \u015firkete e\u011fitim programlar\u0131 d\u00fczenledim, k\u0131sacas\u0131 sosyal bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahibim ve kolay ileti\u015fim kurabilirim. Bununla beraber yeni dostlarla ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma i\u00e7imi tatl\u0131 bir heyecan kaplamas\u0131na neden oldu.<\/p>\n

Zili \u00e7ald\u0131m. Kap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n

Y\u00fcksek ve ah\u015fap kap\u0131dan i\u00e7eri girdim, s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hemen hissetti\u011fim salonda birbirinden samimi bir o kadar g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc ve de\u011ferli dost sohbete ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Hepsi ile tek tek tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.Harika dostlar, ayn\u0131 zamanda her biri kendi alan\u0131nda uzman ve de\u011ferli i\u015f insanlar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi sizlere d\u00fcn gece dinledi\u011fim bir masal\u0131 anlatmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n

Masal\u0131m\u0131n ad\u0131 \u00c7i\u00e7ek \u00dclkesi\u2026
\nBir varm\u0131\u015f bir yokmu\u015f, evvel zaman i\u00e7inde kalbur saman i\u00e7inde bir \u00e7i\u00e7ek \u00fclkesi varm\u0131\u015f. Bu \u00fclkede milyonlarca de\u011fi\u015fik \u00e7i\u00e7ek ya\u015farm\u0131\u015f, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler birbirleri ile konu\u015fmay\u0131, payla\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok severlermi\u015f. Baz\u0131 \u00e7i\u00e7ekler di\u011ferlerinden uzakta ya\u015farlar ku\u015flar ile birbirlerine mesajlar\u0131n\u0131 yollarlarm\u0131\u015f. Daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmayan \u00e7i\u00e7ekler varm\u0131\u015f, birbirlerinden haberleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u015fte b\u00f6yle habersizce ya\u015fay\u0131p giderlermi\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u00c7i\u00e7ek \u00fclkesindeki baz\u0131 \u00e7i\u00e7ekler vefas\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan, baz\u0131 \u00e7i\u00e7ekler onlar\u0131n renklerini, kokular\u0131n\u0131 taklit eden di\u011fer \u00e7i\u00e7eklerden baz\u0131lar\u0131 da egosu \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek bununla birlikte alt yap\u0131s\u0131 olmayan kendini bilmez \u00e7i\u00e7eklerden \u015fikayet\u00e7iymi\u015fler.
\nBir g\u00fcn ayr\u0131 yerlerde ya\u015fayan onbir \u00e7i\u00e7ek k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ser\u00e7elere bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini f\u0131s\u0131ldam\u0131\u015f, kelimeler u\u00e7maya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f \u00e7i\u00e7ek \u00fclkesinin \u00fczerinde. \u0130\u015fte bu onbir \u00e7i\u00e7ek o g\u00fcn ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f birbirine. Ku\u015flar mesajlar\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131\u015flar g\u00fcn boyunca, her bir \u00e7i\u00e7ek yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015f.
\nNe kadar da ortak duygumuz varm\u0131\u015f diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fler. S\u00fcmb\u00fcl tan\u0131\u015fal\u0131m demi\u015f, bir araya gelelim. Haber salm\u0131\u015f ku\u015flara. Sonra bir ak\u015fam hepsi bulu\u015fmu\u015flar, ilk defa kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen sanki birbirlerini y\u0131llard\u0131r tan\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f. Asl\u0131nda hepsi de farkl\u0131 g\u00fczellikte, farkl\u0131 renkte \u00e7i\u00e7eklermi\u015f.<\/p>\n

Ortak y\u00f6nleri ise de\u011fer bilmeleri, \u00e7ok g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, \u00e7ok gezmi\u015f, \u00e7ok okumu\u015f olmalar\u0131, vefaya, do\u011frulu\u011fa, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011fe \u00f6nem vermeleriymi\u015f.
\nB\u00fct\u00fcn gece sohbet etmi\u015fler s\u00fcmb\u00fcl, nergis, ate\u015f \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi, papatya, hercai menek\u015fe, rafflesia, sardunya, s\u00fcsen \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi, yasemin, \u00fc\u00e7g\u00fcl ve zambak\u2026<\/p>\n

S\u00fcmb\u00fcl gecenin sonunda f\u0131s\u0131ldam\u0131\u015f ku\u015flara; \u0130\u015fte demi\u015f onbir benzemezin muhte\u015fem ahengi\u2026
\nOnlar\u0131 birbirine yakla\u015ft\u0131ran ve bulu\u015fturan ku\u015flara f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131klar\u0131 mesajlarm\u0131\u015f. \u0130yi niyet ile, g\u00fczelliklere do\u011fru, de\u011fer yaratarak verdikleri mesajlar hayatlar\u0131na anlam katm\u0131\u015f.Ve masal burada bitmi\u015f…<\/p>\n

G\u00f6kten \u00fc\u00e7 elma d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc biri onbir \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fe, biri size, biri de t\u00fcm yeni dostluklara inananlara\u2026<\/p>\n

Masal m\u0131, ger\u00e7ek mi ?
\nAnlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m masal asl\u0131nda bir ger\u00e7ekti. Masal kahramanlar\u0131 da ger\u00e7ek, anlat\u0131lanlar da. T\u00fcm samimiyeti ile. Ben bir hikayeciyim ne de olsa.
\nBen ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m an\u0131 ve duygular\u0131m\u0131 metaforlar ile anlatmak istedim.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f insanlar\u0131 olarak mutlaka \u00e7evremizdeki do\u011fru mesajlar\u0131 almal\u0131y\u0131z, hep bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z noktalara s\u00fcrekli ve tekrar tekrar bakmak zamanla bir dura\u011fanl\u0131k yaratabilir.
\n\u0130\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0131zl\u0131 hareket d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc i\u00e7inde ortam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, \u00e7evrenizi ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in yeni dostluklara, farkl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131na ve de\u011fi\u015fimlere a\u00e7\u0131k olun.<\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015fimlere a\u00e7\u0131k olun ki sizin de ger\u00e7e\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fen bir masal\u0131n\u0131z olsun. Mutlaka hepinizin bir yerlerde \u00e7i\u00e7ekleri var. L\u00fctfen buna inan\u0131n. \u0130lgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tespit edin, de\u011ferlerinizi yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6k\u00fcn, beklentilerinizi netle\u015ftirin, hedeflerinizi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n

Sizce dostluk nedir?<\/p>\n

Arkada\u015fl\u0131k nedir?<\/p>\n

Birbirimize ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fer katmak nedir?<\/p>\n

L\u00fctfen bu sorular\u0131n yan\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 bu hafta kendi kendinize verin.<\/p>\n

Sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlad\u0131n\u0131z, \u015fimdi s\u0131ra mesajlarda\u2026<\/p>\n

Sonra siz ku\u015flar ile do\u011fru mesajlar\u0131 g\u00f6nderin, kendinizi do\u011fru ifade edin. \u00d6zellikle sosyal medyay\u0131 yo\u011fun olarak kullanan i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131na \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir mesaj\u0131m var. Sosyal medyada verdi\u011finiz mesajlar, g\u00f6nderdi\u011finiz iletiler, kendiniz ile ilgili ifadeleriniz itibar kariyerinizin yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcms\u00fcz, bir kere verildi mi \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu silinmeyen mesajlar. L\u00fctfen anl\u0131k de\u011fil, \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Alg\u0131lar\u0131 y\u00f6netebilme, kendinizi do\u011fru \u015fekilde ifade edebilme noktas\u0131nda mesajlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6ndermeden \u00f6nce bir kez daha g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n

Biz g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 ve y\u00fcksek kalitedeki payla\u015f\u0131mlardan keyif al\u0131nan, g\u00fczel anlar\u0131n dama\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 lezzet ile birlikte tekrar bulu\u015fmak \u00fczere s\u00f6zle\u015ftik\u2026<\/p>\n

Hellen Keller\u2019\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi;
\n\u201cHayat ya cesur bir deneyimdir, ya da hi\u00e7bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.\u201d
\nSevgiyle ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak kal\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n

Hanzade ACAR\n<\/p><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(Bu makale HaberT\u00fcrk HT Hayat’ta yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.) Yava\u015f ad\u0131mlarla yakla\u015ft\u0131m kap\u0131ya do\u011fru\u2026 20 y\u0131ld\u0131r i\u015f hayat\u0131nday\u0131m, i\u015fim nedeniyle \u00e7ok ki\u015fi ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, y\u00fczlerce ki\u015fiye konferanslar verdim, pek \u00e7ok kurumsal \u015firkete e\u011fitim programlar\u0131 d\u00fczenledim, k\u0131sacas\u0131 sosyal bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahibim ve kolay ileti\u015fim kurabilirim. Bununla beraber yeni dostlarla ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma i\u00e7imi tatl\u0131 bir heyecan kaplamas\u0131na neden oldu. Zili […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":504,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-394","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/394"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=394"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/394\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":395,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/394\/revisions\/395"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=394"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}