{"id":386,"date":"2021-02-03T11:12:28","date_gmt":"2021-02-03T11:12:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/61works.com\/onda\/?page_id=386"},"modified":"2021-02-03T13:18:04","modified_gmt":"2021-02-03T13:18:04","slug":"bugun-pirinciniz-nasil","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/bugun-pirinciniz-nasil\/","title":{"rendered":"Bug\u00fcn pirinciniz nas\u0131l?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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(Bu makale HaberT\u00fcrk HT Hayat’ta yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.)<\/h3>\n

De\u011ferli dostlar,<\/p>\n

Sizlerle i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131, yenilikler, ba\u015far\u0131ya ivme katan d\u0131\u015f g\u00fc\u00e7ler, d\u00fcnyada i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan takip edilen trendler, motivasyon bile\u015fenleri, hikayeler, \u00f6rnekler ve daha pek \u00e7ok konuda payla\u015f\u0131mlarda bulunaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131 olmak ger\u00e7ekten ciddi bir organizasyonel planlama, y\u00f6netim becerisi, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, vizyoner bir bak\u0131\u015f . a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, stratejik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, ikna yetene\u011fi ve hepsinden \u00f6nemlisi duygusal zeka gerektirir. \u00c7evremde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm, ayn\u0131 vizyonu payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve s\u0131k s\u0131k payla\u015f\u0131mda bulunma f\u0131rsat\u0131 buldu\u011fum t\u00fcm i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131fat\u0131na sahip dostlar\u0131mda bu \u00f6zellikleri fazlas\u0131yla g\u00f6zlemliyorum.<\/p>\n

Son zamanlarda g\u00f6zlemledi\u011fim ve \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm bir konu duygusal zek\u00e2. Kad\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda var, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc duygusal zek\u00e2 do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen bir yetenek. Bu sahip olunan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli \u00f6zellik i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7erisinde \u015fekillendi\u011finde ve di\u011fer yetkinlikler ile harmanland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131 kendili\u011finden kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131yor. Duygular\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131n, duygusal davranman\u0131n zay\u0131fl\u0131k olarak nitelendirildi\u011fi g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kad\u0131nlar\u0131 i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda \u00f6nc\u00fc olmaya ve tarihe ad\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131rmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcren davran\u0131\u015f stili de yine duygu temellidir. Duygusal zek\u00e2ya sahip insanlar empati kurabilme, problem \u00e7\u00f6zme, duygular\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6netebilme, y\u00fcksek alg\u0131 ile \u00e7evresinde olanlar\u0131 fark ederek anlamland\u0131rabilme yeteneklerine sahiptirler.<\/p>\n

Son y\u0131llarda yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara ve g\u00f6zlemlerime dayanarak s\u00f6yleyebilirim ki; teknik bilgi ve beceri tek ba\u015f\u0131na yetmiyor, teknik konuda \u00e7ok iyi olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen duygusal zekas\u0131 y\u00fcksek olmayan insanlar ileti\u015fim ve uyum konusunda s\u0131n\u0131fta kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00f6yle ki; teknik becerisi, tecr\u00fcbesi ve bilgi birikimi \u00e7ok iyi olabilir bununla birlikte b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 payla\u015facak duygusal zek\u00e2s\u0131 ki bunu da ileti\u015fim becerisi ve tutumlar\u0131ndan rahatl\u0131kla g\u00f6rebiliriz yok ise hayat hem ki\u015finin kendisi i\u00e7in hem de etraf\u0131ndakiler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok zor olur.<\/p>\n

Bir i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131 hayatta pek \u00e7ok ayr\u0131 konuya h\u00e2kimdir, g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015f rutini i\u00e7erisinde yer alan t\u00fcm planlama, organize etme, d\u00fczenleme, de\u011ferlendirme, geli\u015ftirme, uygulama, takip etme ve tekrar g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irme gibi y\u00f6netim becerilerinin yan\u0131nda i\u015f d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki hayat\u0131 da y\u00f6netme becerisine sahiptir i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131. \u00c7oklu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme yetene\u011fi de bu noktada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Ayn\u0131 anda hem i\u015f hem i\u015f d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fant\u0131y\u0131 bir arada y\u00f6netebilme, inip \u00e7\u0131kan dinamikleri adeta bir terazi gibi dengeleyebilme ve kendi d\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda geli\u015fen fakt\u00f6rler ile ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilme biz i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda her zaman var olan yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Yine bu noktada duygusal zek\u00e2ya d\u00f6nmek istiyorum. Duygusal zek\u00e2 kavram\u0131 1995 y\u0131l\u0131nda gazeteci yazar Daniel Goleman\u2019\u0131n “Duygusal Zek\u00e2” kitab\u0131n\u0131 yay\u0131nlamas\u0131 ile ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f ve sonras\u0131nda yazar\u0131n uzun y\u0131llar s\u00fcren ara\u015ft\u0131rma \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmas\u0131yla \u015f\u00f6hrete ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir kavramd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Goleman kitab\u0131nda bu kavram\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle tan\u0131ml\u0131yor “Duygusal zeka ki\u015finin kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamas\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131na empati beslemesi, ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirecek bi\u00e7imde d\u00fczenleyebilmesi yetisi” dir.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu yeti ba\u015far\u0131 i\u00e7in inan\u0131lmaz gereklidir. Amerika\u2019da son zamanlarda EQ’nun geli\u015fmesine y\u00f6nelik okul m\u00fcfredatlar\u0131 haz\u0131rlanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Sevgili i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131 bizler yeteneklerimizi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmeli, geli\u015ftirmeli, d\u00fczenlemeli, yetenek pantonemizin renklerini artt\u0131rmal\u0131 daha \u00e7ok tonlamaya sahip olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyleri sadece g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimizle de\u011ferlendirip s\u0131n\u0131rlamamal\u0131, \u00fcnl\u00fc Aslan Kral filmindeki s\u00f6ylemde yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi \u201cG\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimizin \u00c7ok \u00d6tesi\u201d ni zihnimizde canland\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Teknolojinin bu kadar h\u0131zla ilerledi\u011fi, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimin dakikalar ile s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131\u011f\u0131, arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z ve dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz zamanlar\u0131n bu kadar azald\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda \u00f6zellikle biz i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tempo i\u00e7erisinde duygusall\u0131ktan ve duygusal zekam\u0131z\u0131 her g\u00fcn beslemekten uzakla\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Biz i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131 hayat ko\u015fumuzun i\u00e7erisinde duygusal zek\u00e2m\u0131z\u0131 her zaman kullanmal\u0131y\u0131z, duygular\u0131 hi\u00e7bir zaman geri plana atmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Duygular bazen derinlerde gizlidir, o g\u00fcn, o dakika, o engeli a\u015fmak istiyorsak biraz derinlere bakmay\u0131 unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z. O zaman i\u015fimizde ve i\u015f d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6rece\u011fiz ki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flayacak.<\/p>\n

Gazali der ki; \u201cCevizin kabu\u011funu k\u0131r\u0131p \u00f6z\u00fcne inmeyen cevizin hepsini kabuk zanneder\u201d<\/p>\n

O zaman sevgili dostlar sebat, sevecenlik, sayg\u0131, nezaket, sevgi kavramlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 projelerimizin i\u00e7erisine yerle\u015ftiriyoruz. Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015filerin de\u011fer verdi\u011fi \u015feylere de\u011fer veriyor ve sadece i\u015fte kazanm\u0131yor kalpleri de kazan\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Biliyor musunuz \u00c7inlilerin farkl\u0131 bir selam verme \u015fekilleri var. Onlar birinin hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sorarken \u201cPirincin nas\u0131l?\u201d diyorlar. Bunun nedeni de pirincin y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r onlar\u0131n en de\u011ferli g\u0131da maddeleri olmas\u0131, mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131n ve refahlar\u0131n\u0131n pirin\u00e7 \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcne ba\u011fl\u0131 olmas\u0131. Bu bak\u0131mdan birinin hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sormak i\u00e7in en \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdikleri \u015feyi soruyorlar.<\/p>\n

Peki de\u011ferli dostlar bug\u00fcn sizin \u201cPirinciniz Nas\u0131l?\u201d<\/p>\n

Sevgiyle ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak kal\u0131n…<\/p>\n

Hanzade ACAR\n<\/p><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(Bu makale HaberT\u00fcrk HT Hayat’ta yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.) De\u011ferli dostlar, Sizlerle i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131, yenilikler, ba\u015far\u0131ya ivme katan d\u0131\u015f g\u00fc\u00e7ler, d\u00fcnyada i\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan takip edilen trendler, motivasyon bile\u015fenleri, hikayeler, \u00f6rnekler ve daha pek \u00e7ok konuda payla\u015f\u0131mlarda bulunaca\u011f\u0131m. \u0130\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131 olmak ger\u00e7ekten ciddi bir organizasyonel planlama, y\u00f6netim becerisi, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, vizyoner bir bak\u0131\u015f . a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, stratejik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, ikna […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":507,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-386","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/386"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=386"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/386\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":387,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/386\/revisions\/387"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/507"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/onda.com.tr\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=386"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}